Despite the loss.

Losing someone or something near and dear, is no cause for extended lamenting. Instead, it’s my signal to get on with life. To appreciate and savor precious moments. A reminder that I am still very much alive. And with it.  I’m the lucky and blessed one. The survivor. No sense in grieving forever. Better to get over it. Maybe that sounds a little cold and callous.  Especially to people who like to grieve. Almost feel as if it’s a responsibility.  A tribute to a loved one.  For me, the finest tribute is to live life to the fullest. To find ways to be happy and reasonably contented. Despite the loss. --Jim Broede