Possibly. I learned to enter other worlds. Out of necessity.
So that I could reach dementia-riddled
Jeanne. To show her my love. My devotion. So that I could help her overcome.
The many pitfalls of dementia. For instance, paranoia. I had to convince
Jeanne. That I was on her side. That I was with her. That I could be trusted.
To prove the point. I insisted. That Jeanne be exposed. Only to good vibes. No
bad vibes. If I were upset. Or angry. I had to hide that from Jeanne. In fact.
I cautioned everyone. In Jeanne’s presence. To learn and practice the
intricacies of good vibes therapy. If Jeanne had visitors. I encouraged them to
take turns. To see and converse with her. One at a time. To hold her hand. To
look directly into her eyes. To speak in pleasant and soothing tones. To smile.
I kept reminding Jeanne. That she was loved. That she was my one and only. Yes.
Yes. My true love. You know what? Jeanne
believed it. The paranoia went away. When I put Jeanne to bed every night. I
kissed her on the forehead. I reassured her. ‘Jeanne, dear Jeanne. I’ll love
you forever.’ --Jim Broede
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