More a blessing.

People who are truly in love find it relatively easy to be happy. And even when things go wrong, they find ways to stay reasonably happy. Sometimes, life has its sorrows. They cannot be avoided. But they can be dealt with in positive ways. By putting life in perspective. Knowing that it's possible to make happiness prevail. That ultimately joy and happiness enters one's life. And when one contrasts that with the sorrow one has experienced, the joy and happiness seems even more overpowering, more satisfying, more fulfilling. More a blessing. --Jim Broede.