Rather than do irreparable harm.

Many care-givers are doing good jobs. Because they find ways to hold themselves together. Or because they get help. They cope. They have what it takes to be good care-givers. That's a blessing. And I give 'em credit. But others -- well, they're in over their heads. They aren't equipped for it. They aren't up to the daily grind. It's best that they acknowledge it. Rather than do irreparable harm. --Jim Broede