I help Ron off with his jacket. After a two-mile outing. In
a wheelchair. With opportunities, too, for Ron to get on his feet For short
strolls. On a winding and hilly paved trail. In a heavily-wooded park. Only a quarter-mile
up the road from his new five-bed dementia care center called Arthur’s Residence.
Anyway, upon our return, it’s time for a celebration. For Alzheimer’s-riddled Ron. For being
stimulated. Physically. Mentally. Emotionally. As his jacket comes off, Ron
extends his arms outward. Raises them. Up and down. As if directing a symphony
orchestra. I grasp Ron’s hands. And together, we go through the motions. Humming
a joyful tune. “You are directing an orchestra,’
I tell Ron. Ron speeds up the momentum. He’s laughing. He’s happy. He’s going with
the flow. Yes, Ron’s environs are permeated with a sense of joy. Of being
alive. I call it good vibes therapy. Something that everyone with Alzheimer’s
should be blessed with. Twenty-four hours a day. Even when they sleep. A little
soft music doesn’t hurt. Perhaps an adagio. From Mozart. Or maybe Beethoven. I’m
willing to try anything. To see if it works. In positive ways. Anyway, it wasn’t
long ago. In July. That Ron was almost given up for dead. After he broke his
neck in a fall. But surgeons fused the fracture together. And now it’s fully
healed. Ron has recovered. Almost seems like a miracle. But there are other factors. Not
the least being Ron’s new environs. An experimental way to treat those with
dementia. Not only Ron, but the other patients. They’re all thriving. But Ron is the star. He feels at home. Like he’s
part of a congenial family. They’re all sitting around the dining room table
now. Enjoying lunch. Enjoying their waning days. The way life was meant to be.
Not in an institution. But a far more humane good vibes setting. That genuinely feels like their home sweet
home. Where Ron can salvage another precious moment. Directing the orchestra.
In the Ode to Joy. –Jim Broede
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