Making things right.

I’m not sure if it’s Alzheimer-riddled Ron being put to a test – or the professional care-givers at his new residence. Turns out, Ron has the so-called sundowners effect. Late afternoons. He tends to become a little bit belligerent. Tougher to manage.  Nursing homes tend to respond. With medications. In the past, Ron has been quelled that way. Which I consider a crime. But now Ron is in a five-bed care center called Arthur’s Residence. Where he’s supposed to get more direct personal one-on-one care, and less drugs. The idea is to try to stimulate Ron. In positive ways. Not to put him into a stupor. And placed in front of a TV set. There are far better ways. Ones I’ve experimented with. By engaging Ron. Face to face. Talking to him. In a soft and soothing voice. By touch, too. Making him relax. With a shoulder or foot massage.  Or by taking him for a walk. Or a wheelchair ride. Yes, fresh air stimulation. I’m going to start visiting Ron. At sundowner time. To observe. To see what’s happening.  And if necessary, I’ll intervene. And  demonstrate. How to make things right. –Jim Broede