Friday, September 18, 2015
My wish: A love story that ends well.
Oh, if only Rick and Julie could turn back the clock. And do things
over. They would not have taken Julie's dementia-riddled parents. Into
their own home. For six years. Because that was the wrong decision.
Instead, Rick and Julie should have put father and mother into assisted
living. Leaving much of the care-giving to the professionals. With
reasonable loving supplemental care provided by Rick and Julie. On a
regular, if not daily, basis. Money was no problem. It was an affordable
option. And practical, too. Instead. Rick and Julie forged ahead. On the impractical and dangerous course. As the primary care-givers. Risking the
possibility that they would become physically and mentally and
emotionally exhausted. By doing too much care-giving. Yes, a seemingly
admirable endeavor. Both parents have died. As expected. From Alzheimer-related disorders. Now one wonders if Julie is
headed for a similar fate. Troubled by severe depression and alcoholism and declining health. Putting a once thriving loving relationship in serious jeopardy.
Yes, it would be nice. To turn back the clock. And start all over. By focusing on what should have been. A love story that ends well. --Jim Broede
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