Wednesday, September 2, 2015

Ron's last wish.

Now it's time to die. With Alzheimer's. Ron is in hospice care at his five-bed residential nursing home. And is expected to die in a week or two. And he seems ready for death. Taking it all in stride. He seems to be at peace. And knows/senses what's coming. Seems to feel that he's at home. I'll visit him on Wednesday. Meanwhile, daughter Julie seems to be pulling herself together. In a mood of acceptance. She's in her fifth day without a drink. Indeed, a good sign. Husband Rick seems exhausted by it all. In some ways, Julie is being the strong one. Maybe she knows this is the end of the long and arduous journey. Maybe it is bringing her a sense of relief. Maybe now she will be able to get on with the rest of her life. Both of her parents gone. A new era. No more responsibilities or obligations to one's parents. Maybe now she can focus more on her self. Ron would have wanted it that way. --Jim Broede

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