Sunday, June 30, 2013

Life ain't all that bad.

Bad times in my life don’t seem quite so bad any more. After reflection. And learning from it all. From my dear sweet Jeanne’s 13-year siege with Alzheimer’s. Ending in Jeanne’s death seven  years ago. Of course, I wished Jeanne never had Alzheimer’s. But fact is, she did. Something I couldn’t change. So I learned acceptance. Made the best of the situation. Now it almost seems like a blessing. For me. And for Jeanne, too. After all, I was there for her. When she needed me the most. Could have been a much better care-giver at the start. But I finished strong. Learning. Learning. Learning all the time. By trial. By error. Learned to make care-giving a pleasure. Not a job. Not work. By polishing my loving skills. Became a better human being in the process.. Goes to show that life ain't all that bad. –Jim Broede

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