Saturday, March 28, 2015
To reach the Alzheimer-riddled.
I have a captive audience. That is, when I'm with my Alzheimer-riddled
friend Ron. I give him no choice. I do the talking. Some 95 percent of
the time. And Ron is catching at least half of what I'm saying. Which
ain't bad. He understands babble. For instance. When we go for a walk or
a wheelchair ride. I'm constantly describing what we are seeing. The
snow. The trees. The sky. A giant concrete water reservoir. A cell phone
transmission tower. A squirrel. A deer. A guy walking his dog. The
cawing of a crow. I want Ron to see and hear all this stuff, too. To
absorb the scenery. The sounds, too. To catch the moment. Even if he
forgets it all a few minutes later. The important thing. Ron's mind is
being stimulated. With a vital assist from me. His attentive care-giver
of the moment. Telling him. What he's supposed to see and hear. I'm
trying to make it easier. For Ron to use what's still left of his
wonderful mind. Ron is so very, very intelligent. Which means that even
if he's lost a big percentage of his cognitive abilities/powers. He's
still got a lot left. And it needs stimulation. Not merely now and then.
But daily. That's the responsibility of his care-givers. Especially
the adept ones. Like me. Yes, with proper care-giving. Ron finds peace
and contentment. Even a significant degree of understanding. He knows
that I am his friend and helpful and truly caring care-giver. Yes, that
is what it takes. To reach the Alzheimer-riddled. --Jim Broede
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